Wednesday, December 26, 2012

Enoddu(My) Thathappa...



My greatest strength and my biggest weakness. A soul for whom I have the highest regard, by whom I have been pampered the most and for whom my love has no bounds – My grandfather, whom I lovingly call Thathappa.

From the day I was born, till today I have been lucky to have him around for teaching me values, for pampering me and giving me more love and care than I deserve.

My source of inspiration, my pillar of strength. Spending hours with him when amma and appa would go to work when I was a kid, listening to stories about crows when I was fed food by ammamma or atha after coming back from from my nursery- “Happy Hours”, carrying me from home to the nursery even when I was big enough to walk - inspite being scolded by everyone else, teaching me names of all the buildings on the way to school and quizzing me about it on the way back home, accompanying him to pluck flowers in the morning after he wakes me up, brushes my teeth and make me prostrate before the lord, his stories of “paingaliye” at tea time, the times when he would take me for rounds/walks in the garden, sometimes for horse-riding at leisure, buy me things on the way back – these were a few, very few fond memories that I could pen down on summarizing my childhood days with my thathappa.

His sanskrit and math lessons when I was in primary school, his routine of taking xerox of my answer scripts given at school which he still preserves, the excitement on his face when I give him any report card and how he insists on me giving him a copy of it, his enthusiasm to visit all my schools and colleges even at the age of 87, my good-luck-charm grandfather who would accompany me to all my admissions and be lucky for me, and the life's lessons which he gives me even today are going to stay with me for a long long time.

There are a few things, he does, that makes him get scoldings from everyone but I am always the lone fighter for him inspite of knowing that there is some truth in what other's say. In a way, I pamper him today just like how he pampered me years ago when I was a kid. History repeats. Doesn't it? How can he still have the perseverance to walk for miles to pay the electricity bill, go to almost all banks in the layout or carry a few kgs of vegetables heavy enough for anyone of his age, I still wonder. I save him the trouble of walking when I am at home by making him my pillion on my gearless bike. His dialogue of “Kutti kaalathu lendhu pazhakam” never ceases to be fired even though the earth has revolved more than 75 times since then. Sometimes in this world of Kalyug, it is bad to be good. Inspite of this, he shows his care and love to everyone equally, strangers included, which even raises a few eyebrows at home. His recently developed love for food, coffee and chat gets him a few scoldings but I am always there to pamper him by secretly having chat with him or making coffee for him even though he had one a few minutes back.

I have always felt he should have been an engineer – probably a mechanical engineer on seeing his love for carpentry and playing with nuts and bolts. He is repelled by technology, be it operating a phone(something my grandmother has mastered by now) or even a computer for that matter, considering the simple lifestyle that he has lived for all these years. The typewriter is one of his best friends.

The values he has inculcated in me, the power of prayer that he has taught me, his teachings on how to live life both in times of happiness and difficulties, the things that I've learnt in life just by seeing the way he lives his life, are imbibed in me forever.

From his childhood stories, I have noticed that he has had a very tough life initially. Not enough funding for a pair of spectacles or for a few books, the numerous diseases which troubled him at a very tender age, the sacrifices he made for his family,his sense of commitment for family, the hardship he faced to learn typing and short-hand and master it and using that knowledge working extra time, managing work life with little income but no regrets, makes me feel that life should have been more easy on him.

His white and white dress code in his young days, his black umbrella that would hang on the door in the Sangeetha house, his love for children and telling them stories, his religious attitude and perseverance to learn almost all shlokas byheart (he still continues to do this), his debating skills on arguing with anyone and everyone except me are his signature characteristics.

It makes a huge difference to me when his face lights up on seeing me home or when he comes to me and talks about the void when I am not at home. I would only pray that our bond gets stronger and the lord gives him more happiness to live a happy life and he continues to take care of all of us, just like how he has been doing for more than half a century.

Luck By Chance...



"With great power comes great responsibility". I realized the power of this quote after being a part of the Student Activity Committee in college... With the workload of assignments,projects and tests, there were additional events to arrange,additional responsibilities and additional meetings. But, there is always good to balance the not-so-good.

We had Onam celebrations at college on a pretty grand scale. I tried something which I would have never dared before in life. Gave a shot at Thiruvatharai kalli. We had lighting of lamp/inaugration by director sir in the morning. Wearing the Onam saree to the class,sharing the responsibility of depetalling flowers, putting pookalam, eating some Onam food items,dancing twice(on popular demand) for Parvanendhu and playing tug-of-war ending up on the winning side were some festive memories that will be cherished. The collection of Onam pictures are uncountable. So many many memories captured..

Our mega responsibility of arranging the freshers' day party was fun. We were aided by friends who helped us really put the show together. The party started with performances from iMtech and then moved on to dance by MTech batch with seniors testing our skills by making their presence felt on stage extempore. The performances were followed by some non-stop music and dance for 3-4 hours. The DJ did a pretty good job and we were all set to celebrate hard, venting out our frustrations on the excessive workload here..The food was special with some yummy delicacies and awesome desserts..

The biggest event I have organized in life,so far, would undoubtedly be Foundation Day. It is one of the milestone events in college celebrated on 15th September every year. Our college was instituted on this day. Preparations began with sitting down with seniors and discussing on things to be done, preparing a schedule, a budget and above all choosing volunteers. An event of this magnitude needed some really dedicated volunteers, so we sent out google doc forms to everyone and got a pretty good response. The next few days were spent on concentrating on minute details, taking care of guest hospitality facilities and assigning tasks for volunteers. 10 days of work had to be potrayed in a span of 2 hours. We had guests from various genres. Dr Bombay Jayashree was one of the big names among the guests of honour. We met the IIITB Chairman for the first time in college that day. We had Prof Ananth, Director of IITM who gave a really inspiring talk.Captain S. Prabhala,Mr N Ravi Shanker,Mrs. Uma Reddy and Mr Virupaxagouda G Patil were the other guests of honour that day. I got an opportunity to anchor the formal event, something that I've always done and would always love doing. After the formal event, we had a short and sweet cultural programme, which everone thoroughly enjoyed. It went on well. The programme was followed by photo shoot session with the guests for SAC members, something that was one of the most special moments of the event. After the snacks, I was asked to accompany Dr Bombay Jayashree to her friend's place after which I could go home. WHile going in the cab with her, I realised why was this lady so special and so repected. Her humility and grace left me awed. Taking her blessings, I was about to leave when she escorted me to the gate. Such was the stature of this musical genius. It was a great experience in putting a show like this, meeting people so motivational and above all working with people from college who help you put up an event like this.The volunteers did an extraordinary job and we managed to have a successful event,yet again. Seeing smiles in the face of the people after an event gives me the highest satisfaction.

Small events like SpicMacay always crop up once in a while. The blood donation camp was a pretty big success with 50 donors and great enthusiasm. Festivals like Janmashtami,Ganesh Chaturthi,Dasara,Diwali came along with small celebrations at the food court. Rajyotsava Day was celebrated magnificently with a series of programmes lined up.There were speeches,games,movies screened, great food spread out during the day. I was also fortunate to be a part of the panel discussion conducted by NDTV titled "Does India respect Science?". The trip to the Infy campus that is a stone throw away, the travel in the golf carts within the campus, interacting and taking a photographs and autographs from Narayan Murthy, Harsha Bhogle,Prof Balaram(IISc Director), Vasundhara Das and Sonia,a student from NCBS, having a sumptuous meal at the Infy campus and getting back to college will be cherished memories.It was a very different and pleasant experience to be there on TV asking a question to such an esteemed panel.

Another memorable experience was the trip to Swanthana as a part of college's Aikyam group. I was very apprehensive about the trip since I had never tried something like this before. There were a lot of thoughts and questions running in my head. On November 18th morning, we were around 15 of us who went to Swanthana. After some yummy breakfast at Maaji Sagar, we boarded a couple of buses to reach Swanthana at Sarjapur Road. We went into a room filled with little girls, each with a disability. A few of them could not even express what they want. There was a group that had come over to serve breakfast for the little girls. We started off petting them, feeding them the food, playing with them etc. Personally, it was a very enriching experience. I started off with feeding a few girls with idli/sambhar. Once they were done with that, Mallika,Tarun and group told us the names of the girls there. We took the kids out on their wheel chairs. There was a girl,extremely naughty and was tied to the bench. Once she untied herself partly and I untied the other, she stuck around with me. She was tagged the "Heroine" there. The spark on her face when I put nail polish for her cannot be expressed in words. After spending some time with them, Tarun showed me the rooms they stay in, the activities they do etc. A few of the drawings done by them were very impressive. There was a girl who was in the incubator and had undergone a surgery recently. It seems she is extremely brilliant.I took a little girl who would hardly be around 9 months into my arms. She had been operated since she had some extra growth in her head. On carrying the kid, I really felt the urge to get her home. What made it even more difficult to part from her was that she refused to go to the others when they tried taking her from me. A few super seniors too joined us there. Once we came out, the super seniors had a ragging session followed by a treat session. We took a few snaps during the treat for memories. We went to Total mall on the way back,had lunch at Adigas and came back singing in the bus.This visit really left an impact on me. A thought of giving back to the society in some way, a thought of being thankful to God for being so blessed.

The next couple of days were filled with enjoyment. There was HP's and Sumit's birthday. The VFS tension was always there somewhere in the head.There were a few treats in between like the seniors on getting placed, Sridhar's on getting scholarship etc. Exam time was nearing. Loads of demos and submissions were on. The project had to be complete. We had a few very long nights spent in completing tasks. The few days in between the enjoyment and exams flew quite fast. The exams came and got over in around four days. The networks and communication paper was a mystery. Nothing of what we really studied actually came and that took all of us by surprise. With two sets of papers with some different questions, luck had a part to play. The next was DB paper. It was interesting to write the paper and was quite like what we expected. The algorithms paper was Greek and Latin to us, but with GNS setting it,that was sort of expected. The last one was JSP. We had a nice time pulling the legs of C++ students who had 4 hours of exam whereas we had just one hour. We thought it would be a cakewalk but I guess we were a little over confident. The JSP paper was a bigger surprise with questions least expected appearing int he paper. But that did not bother us much because what followed was freedom. Or so we thought.

I bid good byes to Preethy who had to catch a train after pulling her out of the exam hall so that she can reach the station on time. That evening we went for Alkas and Ravindras treat. Had a great time free from all tensions at college. The night after that was very very special. The December birthdays had their cake cutting followed by song singing session. The memories of semester end was very special. The next morning I left college to be back home. By the projects did not let that last for long. I had to go to college the next day to do the algorithm project. There were more people leaving that evening to go home. So that meant more send-offs, more visits to the bus-stop. The dinner after those send-offs was quite weird. After sitting on tables with 15-20 people,eating,laughing and pulling each other's leg every time we have food, this time there were 5 on the table, talking but minus the entertainment factor. The next morning, we sat together and did some project work till lunch after which I came back home.

Finally, it's holidays. With JSP project and the algorithm project to do in the holidays, I thought we could manage to have some peace and enjoyment. But midway of the holidays, we get a shocker with OS assignment. By the first look, I could not even understand what we had to do in the assignment. No wonder seniors always warn us saying it's a nightmare. In the beginning of holidays, I put in some work into the home work. But then I sort off took it easy. A hectic life awaits int he second semester. Why not enjoy the holidays by eating,sleeping and facebooking. So that's pretty much how the holidays are going...

A new semester awaits...More work..More stress..But am sure we are going to create more memories at IIITB..